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Last year, I was working at the (small, family owned) pizza place. My normal weekly schedule went like this: off for class on Wednesdays, worked Thursdays, and worked Fridays at 5pm. We knew at that point this would be the last holiday season my grandfather would be around for (he passed in January). At the beginning of November, I was asked (by text message) by the owner to work 10:45am to 8pm on black Friday because the family all wanted to go shopping for black Friday. I was the only one in the store who answered phones who wasn't family, and of course, the only one with family out of state (who happened to also have someone dying). I texted back that my plans were set, and I couldn't. The owner threw a fit. He threw a fit that I didn't even consider it by checking with my family first (why would I?) and how could I be so selfish? I wanted to laugh in his face....but he was being such an ass, I was the one in tears.
I held my ground. I said I couldn't switch shifts as I wouldn't be coming back until Friday morning/early afternoon, and would be back to work at 5pm. He told me I had better not be late for my shift (never been late in my life...so he was just being an ass). It was the best holiday we could have hoped for. Grandpa alert, jovial, feeling okay, and it was a great time. By Christmas he had gone downhill and already it wasn't the same. I cannot imagine having to have had to stay in state for that jerk of a boss who "had" to go shopping that day.
The best part? At 10am (well before he wanted me there at 10:45am) he posted saying they were home from shopping and eating breakfast and they had the rest of the day to do whatever (they got his grandmother to work, since she doesn't "do" Black Friday, but they were all still pissed at me anyway). So even though nobody's schedule would have been affected, and they still could have worked, they wanted me to miss a holiday with my family (and the last good one with my grandpa) simply so they could have an extra day off? Whatever.
I made the right decision. I knew it then and I know it now. I just wish I would have gotten out of there sooner, because they never forgave me for that.
I fully expect I will work a long day on Black Friday. I hope to be able to go see some family on Thanksgiving and not be alone. If my family lived in town, I would happily volunteer to work an opening shift so someone else could get a closing shift to go see family for the holiday and get back in time to work. I hope if they take requests, they'll let me schedule late to clean up the disaster and at least spend a day with my family. Time will tell...I'm just grateful to be out of the pizza place and that they've been so flexible with my schedule with school. I'll worry about the Black Friday debacle when I see the schedule.
I held my ground. I said I couldn't switch shifts as I wouldn't be coming back until Friday morning/early afternoon, and would be back to work at 5pm. He told me I had better not be late for my shift (never been late in my life...so he was just being an ass). It was the best holiday we could have hoped for. Grandpa alert, jovial, feeling okay, and it was a great time. By Christmas he had gone downhill and already it wasn't the same. I cannot imagine having to have had to stay in state for that jerk of a boss who "had" to go shopping that day.
The best part? At 10am (well before he wanted me there at 10:45am) he posted saying they were home from shopping and eating breakfast and they had the rest of the day to do whatever (they got his grandmother to work, since she doesn't "do" Black Friday, but they were all still pissed at me anyway). So even though nobody's schedule would have been affected, and they still could have worked, they wanted me to miss a holiday with my family (and the last good one with my grandpa) simply so they could have an extra day off? Whatever.
I made the right decision. I knew it then and I know it now. I just wish I would have gotten out of there sooner, because they never forgave me for that.
I fully expect I will work a long day on Black Friday. I hope to be able to go see some family on Thanksgiving and not be alone. If my family lived in town, I would happily volunteer to work an opening shift so someone else could get a closing shift to go see family for the holiday and get back in time to work. I hope if they take requests, they'll let me schedule late to clean up the disaster and at least spend a day with my family. Time will tell...I'm just grateful to be out of the pizza place and that they've been so flexible with my schedule with school. I'll worry about the Black Friday debacle when I see the schedule.