hi team!
i found this site just a few minutes ago looking for some answers - hoping anyone might be able to help.
back in 2016, i left my GSA position abruptly and suddenly. another GSA i was working with was sexually harassing me in private and calling me the big gay F slur in front of other teammates and leadership (you can guess why).
one night, he had me cornered in an office while we were closing and continually was launching the F slur at me in a “joking” way and i had enough of it. as we were leaving the store, i told the ETL i would not be returning.
i had complained to HR over 2 years about all of this and was told that i’m making a bigger deal out of it than it needs to be and that i need to “own the word” and if he’s questioning his sexuality and using me as a tool, i need to “play back” and pursue it on my end. this was HR’s direction and their idea of being “inclusive” to everyone in the situation so i’m not sure how much official paper trail was made during that time.
anyway, i’ve since moved on to much larger career opportunities in a much larger, less conservative city. i’ve cemented a great corporate career with a healthcare company since 2016, however, i’ve always missed my experience at target and i’m at a point in my life where happiness > money.
my husband recently left the same corporation to be a manager at gamestop and despite the drastic pay difference, he’s infinitely less depressed and is excited to wake up every morning and i SO SO desperately want that again. it might sound crazy, but target really meant that much to me despite everything going on at the time.
i know my emotional 19 year old self made a poor decision by abandoning my job, but i’m wondering if there’s any word on when i would become rehireable again? or if anyone has any suggestions on how to get rehired given the set of circumstances?
TIA!!!
i found this site just a few minutes ago looking for some answers - hoping anyone might be able to help.
back in 2016, i left my GSA position abruptly and suddenly. another GSA i was working with was sexually harassing me in private and calling me the big gay F slur in front of other teammates and leadership (you can guess why).
one night, he had me cornered in an office while we were closing and continually was launching the F slur at me in a “joking” way and i had enough of it. as we were leaving the store, i told the ETL i would not be returning.
i had complained to HR over 2 years about all of this and was told that i’m making a bigger deal out of it than it needs to be and that i need to “own the word” and if he’s questioning his sexuality and using me as a tool, i need to “play back” and pursue it on my end. this was HR’s direction and their idea of being “inclusive” to everyone in the situation so i’m not sure how much official paper trail was made during that time.
anyway, i’ve since moved on to much larger career opportunities in a much larger, less conservative city. i’ve cemented a great corporate career with a healthcare company since 2016, however, i’ve always missed my experience at target and i’m at a point in my life where happiness > money.
my husband recently left the same corporation to be a manager at gamestop and despite the drastic pay difference, he’s infinitely less depressed and is excited to wake up every morning and i SO SO desperately want that again. it might sound crazy, but target really meant that much to me despite everything going on at the time.
i know my emotional 19 year old self made a poor decision by abandoning my job, but i’m wondering if there’s any word on when i would become rehireable again? or if anyone has any suggestions on how to get rehired given the set of circumstances?
TIA!!!