To the GSA....you seriously coached me for confirming with you that I was taking my lunch and not my break when I was confused because I had just been told not a half hour earlier that I would be training the new person when she got out on the floor after reading the manual? We mix up those words all the time, so confirming with you was a problem? I'm sorry, you aren't perfect...none of us are. Stop trying to convince me that you never forget about our breaks...because you forgot about mine the night before until less than a half hour before I was supposed to leave. Clearly I understand you are in charge and have been doing it this way for a while. And I'm fine with that. But being forced to miss breaks by an hour or more because I'm not allowed to ask you is getting old.
But then I realized that the next person coming on was the person you wanted me to train (after you "took away" the first one assigned to me) because she is your sister, and you were in a panic about that. Well, relax. I do my job professionally as a trainer and talk you all up about how great and helpful you all are and how they are so lucky for the great management, etc. So you thought me questioning you was going to tie in what I say to you to a trainee? If that's the case, you're paranoid.
If that isn't the case, letting us know what you have in mind for our breaks and lunches isn't giving up control. In fact, it's empowering us to help you when things get busy. So everyone else doesn't get backed up when you've forgotten/gotten distracted. In fact, that's exactly what all the other GSTLs/GSAs do...and they haven't given up control of anything. But don't worry...I'll never ask for breaks, change or anything else that is somehow perceived as a threat to you.
And what explains a lot is I'm not the only one who feels this way. Another girl went to ask you for her paycheck last night and was relieved when the other GSA came over to do it, because she is convinced you hate her (her words)....probably because she gets the same crap and attitude from you that I do.